7th February, 2008
This Is The Fasting
So, this whole fasting thing is going to be a little tougher than I thought. I think I already violated that today. I had my “meal” around lunch time, which was the leftover ravioli from last night. Then before class, I called Anh Hong to place a spring roll order. I thought that two spring rolls would be enough for my little meal, so I ordered two orders of it. Well, two springs rolls was just enough, so four was too much. For my first little meal of the day, I had the two rolls. After class… I had the other two. Technically, all those four combined definitely adds up to more than one meal.
Okay, so I’m not going to back out. I’m going to get this right damn it. I will persevere. I will fast!
My candle lighting is going well. I’m using tea lights and I thought that instead of blowing it out after I’m done praying, I’d let it burn all the way through. Tea lights are cheap anyway. I bought a small set of them to get me started, but I think Walgreens sells them in a big pack for a really cheap price.
So my whole job thing I’m still kind of avoiding. I’m still a little freaked out and am scared as hell to come in to see the big boss. I haven’t set up an appointment yet, but I will for next week.
But on the happier news… I got hired! There is a new clothing store right off of campus and they had the help wanted sign, so I dropped off my resume and filled out an application on Sunday. The woman who owns the place, BL, gave me a call yesterday and I met with her today. I did my awful best to sell myself and well, it worked! She hired me right after our interview and I start on Monday! The great thing is that I’m starting off a lot more than minimum wage (what it is, I don’t know yet) and I’ll be working almost 30 hours a week. Hurray!
Okay, I know it’s not the ideal job I wanted to take during this break, but at the time, I didn’t know how tough it would have been. I thought, Hell, I’m a marketable gal. I’m smart, I’m hardworking, I’m great. The potential employers will see that… I think. Well, when you’re trying to apply for an actual job in actual non-profits without an actual degree of some sort or any actual experience… yeah, that’s a bit tough. I really didn’t think it all the way through, but it’s okay. This is income and this will help.
It’s the new year! Chuc Mung Nam Moi! That means almost one year from now, my daddy will be 60 (he’s a late rat). Holy cow. I should think of a nice birthday present for him. What do you give a working father for his sixtieth birthday?
Tags: clothing store from hell, Lent, work
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7th February, 2008
This Is The Night Of Ash Wednesday
Well, the ash is off my forehead now. I did my reading and hopefully, the congregation thought it went alright. After that, I went to a restaurant to eat my one full meal of the day and man, was I full. Unfortunately, I ordered the ravioli unaware that there was meat inside it. Luckily, I was already so full from the clam chowder that I pretty much ended up putting most of the ravioli in a to-go box.
However, right now, that’s not what concerns me. Right now, I am on the verge of losing my job as an Online Developer at The Daily Californian. Why? Well, for the last few months ever since the Fall semester started, I’ve been lagging on my projects. I had two projects to take care of over the semester and one large project to take care of over the winter break. On all three times, I did not deliver. There was a project over the summer that I had to do and only a few weeks ago did I finally finish it. I know, as an employee, I should be fired. I know, I know, I know. I tried to explain to my bosses that during the fall semester, I was going through my whole depression stuff, but I can’t keep prolonging it now.
The thing that sucks is that I really need someone to talk to right now, but RN is sleeping and I didn’t want to disturb him. I don’t know who else to go to and it’s almost midnight. People need sleep. I have so many things to take care of and I can’t. I have to come into the office to meet with the big boss again and I’m afraid to. The main reason why I stayed away for so long was because I was completely intimidated. That and because I knew I had nothing to show for my work and that’s not good.
I don’t know what’s going on. The unfortunate thing is that right now, I don’t feel like doing anything at all. I have an extra credit paper I need to write by tomorrow and I’ve got so much reading to catch up on as well as the sociology assignments I need to catch up on. Earlier today, I was fine. Then maybe a few hours ago, I decided to send in my updates to the boss and big boss. Then I got the reply email from the big boss and she wants to see me. A project that I was supposed to deliver on is no longer my project. She says I have to work on the other projects now, but I’m so scared that I’m going to lose this job. It will be the first time I’ve been fired (not that I’ve had many jobs anyway) and I know that having a nice “fired” thing on my resume isn’t that great to talk about.
I’m freaking out and I don’t know what to do. I can’t eat because I’ve decided that for Lent, I’m going to 1) pray and light a tea light candle each day. I think I’ll actually create a nice little candle altar/thing like you see in the churches. 2) I’m going to not eat candy… not that I’ve been eating a whole lot lately anyway and 3) I’m going to fast. It’s similar to the actual fast that Catholics are supposed to do on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday: You must eat only one full non-meat meal that day, but you are allowed two small “meals” as long as they don’t add up to more than the full meal itself; drinks are allowed. The only modification I’m making is that meat will be allowed except on the Fridays in Lent, when I must abstain from meat altogether. Fish are okay.
Anyways, more freaking out is happening. I should write that short paper, but I can’t get myself to do it right now. I think I just need to step away from this laptop and try and do something productive.
Tags: Ash Wednesday, Lent, RN, school, work
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